I love when my kids get to read about resilient, self-reliant characters in their books. It encourages them (and me!) as they face challenges, and helps them to realize that they can push through difficulty and accomplish their goals. I Move A Lot and Thats Okay!, by Shermaine Perry-Knights, is a great example of a character who faces obstacles and is able to persevere. 

The book tells the story of Grace, a seven-year-old military kid; she doesn’t like the term “military brat.” When we meet her, the family is preparing to move to a new station, since her dad is a soldier. Grace’s telling of the experience is honest and raw, and she describes things that feel “ok” and “not ok” as she keeps moving forward. 

Grace’s experience is typical of military families; moving is a regular part of life as parents are stationed in different parts of the world. It can be incredibly difficult for spouses and kids, but it also develops an inner strength that will last a lifetime. We can watch Grace navigate this struggle and convert it to strength. She describes the process of moving her belongings, getting used to new homes and new schools, and finally arriving in Italy, where her family is stationed. 

Military kids will recognize themselves in Grace’s experience, and they’ll enjoy seeing familiar terms and acronyms throughout the story. However, the deeper and more important lesson will shine through to kids of all backgrounds: families can face hard things together and come out the other side stronger. Grace’s family holds tight to traditions, like having pizza as their first meal in a new place, in order to find balance and joy together. 

Our family has faced many challenges together, and we continue to persevere. I’m thrilled that my kids can see their emotions and life journey reflected in a character as brave as Grace!